Borderline Personality Disorder is the Medical diagnosis for “highly sensitive people.”
I hate the labeling our culture does, but we have to call it something so we can communicate. How ’bout we take the highly sensitive people label and borderline personality disorder label, and re-label this observation as a Gift of God.
Then lets consider the varying approaches to caring for whatever this human is.
First, lets look at the tender loving Medical care for our most sensitive people. They try to talk some sense into them with psychotherapy, (J/K, I like my therapist) and send them home with a prescription.
Selective Serotonin Re-uptake Inhibitors: SSRI’s or antidepressants are usually well-tolerated; chance of a lethal overdose is minimal. However, “SSRIs are only marginally effective for depression and anxiety in patients with borderline personality disorder.”
Mood Stabilizer: Iamotrigine slows down hyperactivity of brain tissue. One tiny side effect, it inhibits MTHFR gene function, which destroys developing babies, and slowly deteriorates your health.
Benzodiazipines: Ativan and Valium are highly addictive, and they really do nothing more than alcohol. You just skip the singing and “I love you man” phase, and go right to pass out. CNN says, “The potential danger of benzodiazepines is no secret: They were involved in about 30% of prescription drug overdose deaths in 2013,“
Second Generation Antipsychotics: Abilifyblocks the production of dopamine in your brain. When dopamine is released you feel love and gratitude. But when your Love is challenged or threatened, Dopamine amplifies the protection part of Love which looks like a Momma Bear!
They could stop challenging or threatening Love, a Gift of God, but instead they prescribe Abilify. It knocks out a Momma Bear, so they can take what they want without Momma getting out of control.
This isn’t sounding right to me! That’s not how I would care for our most sensitive, at all!!!
Send your “psychotics” or “borderliners” to True Health. Here is my approach:
Step 1: I’d hold them until they feel safe. That doesn’t mean nursing them, silly, it means making safe space. I invite people more often if it’s too intense out there. Eventually, you will be able to stay at the Farm for as long as you need.
Step 2: I’d apologize for how hurtful this world feels and share my experience of being highly sensitive in a hard world, at least the most hilarious parts, until they feel comfort and ease.
Step 3: I’d teach the virtue of sensitivity and how our world needs us to be strong. Then I would explain how God so thoroughly disrupted my life, to put this missionin my hands.
Step 4: I give them the healing and strength of my hands which are extensions of a soft heart, and send them home with Bupleurum Formula. That is my best version of Yi-Gan-San, which came to be over 500 years ago, in the soft tradition of natural medicine in China, for the treatment of sensitive, agitated children. And double blind tested to significantly relieve the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder, Treatment Resistant Schizophrenia, and Bipolar Disorder.
It was their best care for their most sensitive children, and it’s been passed along for its effectiveness for 500 years. In 2008, they scientifically validated Yi-Gan-San with a double blind study, the highest form of scientific validation, according to Medicine.
After 12 weeks, the doctors concluded that there was a “highly significant improvement in anxiety, tension, depressive mood, hostility, suspiciousness, motor retardation, uncooperativeness, and manic episodes.”
Lol. I love medical terminology, not for it’s value, but for its humor. They call a genetic vulnerability a MTHFR, and “not showing the will / movement to live or thrive,” = motor retardation.
True Health’s 4 steps vs the American Medical Association’s 4 steps!?
I’d love to hear your vote. Which would you prefer?!?
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Borderline Personality Disorder is a Mental Illness.
“Borderline personality disorder is characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability and hypersensitivity in interpersonal relationships, instability in self-image, extreme mood fluctuations, and impulsivity. Diagnosis is by clinical criteria. Treatment is with psychotherapy and drugs.” MerckManual
This mental illness is characterized by loving too strongly, hurting too deeply, and reacting to hurt too intensely. If you feel too much, you border on psychosis, which is defined as a complete loss of connection to reality.
Maybe you could stop hurting us…
Lol…they warn that “we will blame others for the pain we feel, but we are projecting and often paranoid.”
Which one is Mentally Ill? Which one crosses the border first?
This scenario has happened to me over and over. This is the one that happened most recently. I tried to be vague and anonymous. This is the same scenario that led Sacred Stone to believe she was a “mean person.” She said, “Ok, idiots, I guess I’m mean.”
Woman: Dr. Stone, I’d like your opinion.
Dr. Stone: But of course, I don’t even charge for my time and care.
Dr. Stone offers his opinion, which he openly admits might not be truth. “Try it and check the results. Many have found relief from my advice. That’s all I can say for sure.”
Woman: That is stupid and you are a bad person. Wrong and Bad, again.
Dr. Stone: I could be wrong, but I am almost certain I am not bad.
In this scenario, a long time patient left my practice claiming that I betrayed her. My betrayal was upsetting her friend, this woman, and not letting her have her opinion, that I am a bad person. LOL, I saved her daughters life four years ago.
I already knew she was going to leave, because I could feel it. I even asked her if everything was ok 4 or 5 times.
If you asked what my guess is, why she left, I think it was because I allowed her to see the depth of my hurt from a marital separation. We had been through so much together, I thought it would be ok to be real in front of her. My guess is that she thought I was mentally ill, or borderline. Lol
I could be wrong, but I won’t take the chance of revealing the depth of hurt I feel to anyone not on the Border team, ever again!
So Who Is Mentally Ill? Which one?
The person who gives his opinion or the person who finds someone to be a bad person for having a unique perspective. Perhaps, the person who feels hurt when someone calls him a bad person, or the person who feels hurt because I argued that her opinion is wrong.
The person who insists he is not a bad person or the person who says “Dr. Stone has to be right about everything” when I insist that I am not a bad person.
I teach my kids about FIRST BLOOD. Remember Rambo, he taught me this.
The first person with a hurtful intention draws first blood. The one who hits when play wrestling gets too rough. I think its first blood when someone declares you are a bad person because of your unique perspective.
Our culture thinks it’s pretty normal to categorize nearly everyone into some bad category. My category of bad-ness is Borderline Personality Disorder. Not officially. I was assessed by a psychologist as no diagnosable mental illness. But someone who called me bad, labelled my badness BPD. If you are a Republican, I often hear them declare that Democrats are bad people.
I think that calling anyone anything other than a Gift of God, is the mental illness.
I have a name for that mental illness, that I learned in high school. We called people that hurt for no reason, “dicks.” Lol. Only now I know they hurt, because they were wounded by the rules.
Let me share my unique perspective. I am certain about what I have seen, heard, and felt. If you play along, you might learn something very valuable. I call it a different perspective. My mental illness allows me to easily step into your shoes, and feel your perspective.
Would you like to step into my shoes? “I felt like something is not right about me, because I didn’t seem to fit into any of the many categories our hard culture teaches. I never have complete relief from Pain, because so many of the categories are considered bad, leaving our people wounded and hiding, or hurting back. White man is supposedly the “best category,” but it feels horrifying. Hard and hurtful!”
I even tried hurting, because the white men in charge seemed to be the most hurtful. LOL.
I found a way to be hard and hurtful, softly. I would see someone being a dick, and walk right up and say, “You’re a dick.” In our culture, first blood is when you declare war. He would declare war, and when he saw the intensity of my fury, the war was lost. “Crap, this guy is nuts.” Lol. Over 50 street fights with 2 losses.
I teach my children about first blood, and that in our culture people get to say hurtful things to you, so you must not react. Just let it go. Don’t even defend yourself. I teach them that if someone physically hurts them, hold up their stop sign and say STOP, with all your strength. And if they don’t stop, come get dad, and I will help convince them to back off.
Don’t worry, it won’t go past revealing the intensity of my fury. Once they see that I am mentally ill, I’ll give them one more chance, to run away.
Please vote for who you think is mentally ill!
Is it Dr. Stone, who feels hurt too deeply, or the dicks who hurt for no reason!?
If you are on the border team, or somehow “not right,” I have some medicine that helps with the hurt of a hard culture. It takes the edge off so you appear less insane. Lol. CLICK HERE.
And join my mission. I think the rules for “normal” need a little softening.
Big Tobacco doesn’t play fair with Nicotine and additives!
The movie, “The Insider” revealed that big tobacco uses substances derived in their labs that hook our brain to smoking and nicotine. When you attempt to stop delivering their for profit drug to your brain, the consequences are severe. I’ve created this healing protocol teaching you how to quit smoking or dipping, and it works far better than the nicotine patch!
Join me as I document my Nicotine withdrawal symptomsand how I take away the pain, using acupressure and plant medicines.
I have been addicted to chewing tobacco for over 30 years. I’ve quit over 100 times. This time I have a plan.
Step one was to start on Sunday. lol. All 100+ fails started on Monday.
Step two: I’m treating addiction like I treat other conditions. I’m healing addiction instead of quitting. I don’t know why I didn’t see that sooner!! Try to quit a thyroid problem or fibromyalgia!! Lol.
I heal patients with those conditions with plant medicines and acupressure, so I created an Addiction Relief plant medicine, and the following acupressure protocols.
I share every step of the protocol right here. How to quit smoking or chewing tobacco. I wrote my daily log May 2018 and have been tobacco free since with no cravings or desire to return!!
Day 1
The first reminder of the hook of tobacco was a slight afternoon craving. That bizarre pull towards no value. I took my plant medicine and tapped KI27, CV24, GV 26 and GV20, and I was able to refocus on what I had been doing pretty easily.
After dinner, I felt the first real pain as sudden nausea. My plan was to feel the pain of nicotine withdrawal, the hurt you feel when you quit bathing your brain in their profit, and find a way to take it away. I had my next best step ready, and started placing acu-beads in my ears.
I got two of the six points covered that I had planned, Point Zero which helps provide a general balance of the body and mind and Shen Men, which is the point for stress, anxiety, and excessive sensitivity. Then, the awkwardness of applying the beads pulled me back to body points.
I searched “best acupuncture points for nicotine addiction” and Google gave me two acupuncture points located on the wrist. The first one I already knew about, the “letting go point.” The next point I had never heard of. It was called Tim-Mee and considered an extra meridian, and was located “between the lines.”
I live between the lines, lol, so that felt right. I placed acu-beads on LI 4 and the extra point, between LU7 and LI5, which has been used for thousands of years for addiction. Then I 1. took my medicine, 2. tapped KI27 and CV/GV, 3. Squeezed the two ear points I had finished, and 4. Pressed on the two wrist points that came up from googling.
I can feel pretty easily from websites if they are takers or leavers. When you only read the ones that are giving, google brings great wisdom.
Just as my Nausea began to transform into deep dark depression, everything started to turn around. I was pretty glad the depression lifted almost as quickly as it had dropped in.
Day 2
Staying busy is a desperate and futile attempt to make nicotine withdrawal easier. I knew from experience that my busy day would only delay the struggle, but it was my day, so I enjoyed it.
I saw several wellness patients and then off to watch Sacred Stone rockvarsity soccer, as a 7th grader. Watching her perfection leaves me high for hours.
The day was so easy, that I shared an email to my subscribers that “this is going to be easy if I can hold off the bizarre pull and withdrawal symptoms this well.”
Around midnight, I felt tired and fell asleep quickly. Just over an hour later, I woke in the throes. Restless-thrashing-hot flashes. I was burning up, but not like a fever, more like I imagine severe menopausal hot flashes to feel like. I tried to handle the first wave with acupressure, and added True Sleep, and more of the Addiction Medicine for the second wave. The third wave I explored other acupressure points.
This sequence of points…LI4, KI17, LV8, HT7, and ST41 increased my relaxation.
But I didn’t quite feel comfortable enough to sleep until I added CV1 and ST25.
CV1 is located between the genitalia and the anus. Western medicine calls it the perineum. Eastern medicine calls it the Meeting of the Yin. You apply pressure to this soft, vulnerable area, onlyin extreme circumstances. Such as drowning, coma, and for when you can’t tell if this is the greatest or worst thing to ever happen to you. Western medicine calls that bipolar disorder.
ST 25 is two finger widths on either side of the belly button, which Five Elements calls Spirit Gate. Lol. We have a clear winner in naming body locations. Two inches lateral to the belly button, is the Celestial Pivot. It connects upper and lower “Warmers,” so if heat is trapped anywhere, it helps open the gates in the other direction. And my…. ummm, “area I cover in underpants” was on fire. lol
That burning discomfort is what made me think of CV1, and ST25 was the next point that popped into my brain. It was far from sexy as I applied pressure to these two points for a minute or so. But in moments, I relaxed into sleep for 4 hours, after 2 hours of battling for comfort. Adding these resources, led to an easy day.
I remember past attempts, when I weathered the storm, the throes of pain, with no idea how to meet needs, I was so irritable the next day I was hard to be around.
Day 3
I was in good spirits today, after being drawn to the soft vulnerability of my Meeting of the Yin, and recalling my Celestial Pivot. LOL.
I dabbed True Wound Mend, our topical for pain or injury, on my new “resources” for relief of nicotine withdrawal symptoms.
Another busy day of clinic and soccer kept my focus, and along with my medicine, the bizarre pull was nearly zero. I dabbed some more True Wound Mend before bed to try to alleviate withdrawal symptoms, which I recalled worsening through the first week.
Sleep came quickly which is such a relief compared to the alternative. I slept four hours before the withdrawal symptoms were intense enough to wake me. Withdrawal felt like cold sweats. I piled the blankets on my chilled body, and did acupressure to Fire Element points. TW23, SI19, HT7. I was able to relax back to sleep pretty quickly, and get another three hours of sleep! It’s waaay more challenging to weather withdrawal when you are sleep deprived!
Day 4
The medicine and acupressure seem to hold off the bizarre pull. When it first pops into my brain, I take a few drops of the medicine and stimulate the acu-points I described on day 1, and the preoccupation with tobacco goes away for an hour, up to several hours.
The addition of dabbing True Wound Mend on a couple other acu-points seemed to be decreasing the withdrawal symptoms. Most of my previous hundreds of attempts to quit tobacco didn’t make it to day four. The growing intensity of craving and withdrawal symptoms would usually win by day three, but this time, day three was a bit easier than day two.
The night of day four barely felt like a speed bump. I woke at 5:00 for a few minutes and fell back to sleep in a few minutes.
Day 5
Acupressure and Plant Medicine. Day five didn’t feel like tobacco withdrawal. It felt like a normal day. I felt the bizarre pull a few times, and immediately took my medicine. My acupressure protocol takes less than a minute.
When I first created this plan, it was not intended for “cold turkey.” My plan was to make an agreement that if you want your tobacco product, do these 3 things first, and then if you still want it, go ahead. Doesn’t that sound so much easier than cold turkey!?
I’m doing this cold turkey, to save a heart.
Day 6
Day 6 I got a red card at my daughter’s soccer game. LOL Click here to read the story. It was upsetting and intense. How the heck does Big Tobacco so intimately connect with our stress!? Every time I made it past a week, I’d have a fight with my spouse or something, and feeling crappy made the bizarre pull too intense to withstand.
I may not have made it past the intensity of a red card without the faith, confidence, and reassurance I get from the woman with the soft heart. It was broken by a heart attack, after too many years addicted to smoking. The doctor said, “cigarettes are the only reason you had that heart attack, you must quit to survive.”
I’m not sure if I can get it to pain free for her, but I’ll do my best! I bet we at least find a place called manageable.
Day 7
Does anyone else feel awful the day after an intense situation? OMG, I wanted to escape life so badly, just to relieve the discomfort my heart feels. The lady soccer coach triggered the pain, but I’ve been hurting for months. After 100+ day threes of withdrawal, and 50 day fours, and 20 day fives, along with just generally being too sensitive…my wife left last year.
It may be for the best. We seemed to push each other’s buttons very intensely.
She’s a tough woman, with just enough sensitivity to protect and nurture some of the most sensitive kids I have ever met. I’m a sensitive man, with just enough toughness to keep a roof over their heads. We had 2 cars repossessed in the last 4 years, so I wasn’t quite earning the “doctors salary” I had dreamed of, lol.
I came up with a plan to fix everything.
When my wife felt harsh or hard to me, I would soften her with love and appreciation. I would create a website to sell the amazing medicines I had watched heal incurable diseases, and offer my healing like a real woman, with no expectations.
I was still working on the website when she made her decision. When I finished, now alone, I didn’t think I could handle the pain of withdrawal on top of the that turn of events. I kept working on my plan, sharing Mother Nature and Healing, and “fighting” Profit over People, but I couldn’t battle addiction, because I needed it’s escape.
Then a woman found my mission. She was inspired to try the healing True Health offers for lungs, which was the part of her that felt the most hurt from Big Tobacco.
She read my stories of healing and started urging. “You can do it. I know you can. You can take away the pain and imprisonment of Big Tobacco.”
I named her Badass Momma, because she was the first person to comment on my new website’s blog!
I agreed to do my best, but I didn’t think I was ready to pick that fight, until Badass Momma had a heart attack. She emailed her struggle for life, and fighting the bizarre pull and withdrawal symptoms. The cravings and withdrawal had hurt her so badly in the past that she quit quitting, just like DrStone!
I suggested she “do her best” while I “get up ahead of her.” I’ll face the pain of bizarre pull and withdrawal and heal that hurt just like the many other conditions I wasn’t supposed to be able to help.
Day 8
I feel resolved. Of course, I know life will bring hard or intense stress and I will need the medicine and acupressure, but I know it works, when I need it. I still have to get Badass Momma through this mess, in a much weaker condition. I was feeling as strong as I have ever felt, and she is recovering from a heart attack. We might not achieve cold turkey, but I bet we win.
If you are fighting for your life, or sick and tired of giving your money and health to Big Tobacco, join us. One Hundred fails, and this plan made it seem easy. And there are no side effects of plant medicines, other than a bitter taste. There are no dangers, except that it might not work as well for you.
All I know is that if I took the medicine the first moment I felt the bizarre pull, and did the acupressure as I described, the craving went away. I added True Wound Mend and another couple acu-points to ease the throes of withdrawal, and instead of getting worse by the day, it all got easier.
If you try my plan, I will stand by for you. If you are faced with a pain you cannot relieve, just post it here, and I will tell you what to do next, and next, until we find easy, or at least manageable.
Click Here to get True Addiction Relief, along with True Wound Mend. Click on the ear seeds below to by direct from Amazon. Everything you need to model my exact steps, that made it easy!
Badass Momma did win, and used this resource to help.
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She had asked a dozen Doctors for help, over a full decade. They all agreed that she had a thyroid problem, and she did have multiple symptoms of hypothyroidism. They did their best to heal her thyroid, but they were treating the effect, and not the cause. She had Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis, and autoimmune condition.
(My insurance contract was terminated for helping her, so the picture is appropriate)
She was so sick and exhausted that she felt like she was dying. She quit a career she loved to take care of her health, and by the time she found True Health, she was broken physically and financially.
I took care of her for whatever she could pay. She helped make True Health beautiful in exchange, as she felt better.
When Melissa and I first met, she was ready to give in to whatever comes after our earthly existence. She confided that I was her “last hope!” (No pressure or anything!)
She had tried ‘everything’ to resolve hypothyroidism, but for 10 years, she had been getting weaker and more exhausted.
And she was in severe pain! She had pain running from the top of her head, down her right arm to her thumb, and down her right leg to her big toe. She rated it 10 out of 10 on some days,where she couldn’t get out of bed. Other days, she could get up and eat to stay alive, but not much else.
Her first doctor diagnosed a thyroid problem from the two blood tests, TSH and T4.
He prescribed Synthroid, which according to Medscape is the nation’s top prescribed drug, despite no known root cause of thyroid problems, well except when doctors destroy it with radiation in the treatment of Graves Disease.
True Health has resolved Graves Disease with Mother’s medicine, so there is another way.
Melissa’s story didn’t start out so well.Synthroid caused her pain to increase dramatically. She was naturally minded anyway, so she turned to alternative medicine. Pushed gently by the fact that her real medicine hurt like a Mother!
Her alternative doctors did a better job of listening and responding, and she actually felt some improvement taking their medicines. “I am slightly less exhausted!“
But they all focused on her Thyroid problem, and Hashimoto’s thyroiditis is an autoimmune disease. Care needs to be focused on her immune system.
When she visited True Health, she felt as bad as she had ever felt. She said something like, “she could just give in to death, it feels so close.” DrStone said “Pshaw, let’s run a few tests. I bet we’ll find a way to heal.”
I took her case history, as doctor’s do, and when she told me about the pain, I thought, “I’ve seen tons of Thyroid problems, and pain is not a prominent symptom.” This had to be something else.
Then she told me about a chronic sore throat, anxiety and chest tightness, that she rated as severe. She was inflamed and stressed out. Thyroid problems present more like soft women, and some men, tired of a hard world.
I guessed it before we ran the test, Autoimmune Thyroiditis.
Real doctor’s often resist testing for autoimmune thyroid problems. Their only treatment for autoimmune problems is chemotherapy, to suppress the immune system. And they don’t consider Hashimoto’s “bad enough” to use their hurtful medicine.
Autoimmune does NOT mean helpless. It just requires another question.
What is aggravating her immune system? Allergens, toxins, or infections?
I would estimate that I see toxins and infections as the trigger 90% of the time.
Formaldehyde, a know carcinogen, is used in home construction. We are surrounded by it in the name of profit. Antibiotics weaken our immune system, and repeated use causes Super-Infections. I didn’t name that.
“Super-Infection” is the term medicine uses to describe the parasitic, fungal, yeast, or antibiotic resistant bacterial infections, that are a known side effect of antibiotics.
Melissa was one of the 10% that showed an allergy to food. Gluten. Gluten free is trendy. I hate trends. Doing something because it is popular feels like the most horrifying reason to do anything. I helped create all of True Health’s amazing healing stories by sorting for results,not popularity.
“Results” wasn’t easy to find, because nearly everyone taught opinions and ideas, and very few were willing to try it out and see for themselves. Can you believe that some people are afraid to try plant medicines? I wonder which for-profit corporation stuck that idea in their brain?
Ok, no problem. Gluten free was nothing compared to the pain she had endured for 10 years!
With the immune aggravation gone with a change in shopping habits, we turned our attention to inflammation and the damage 10 years of no help caused her adrenal glands.
In autoimmune diseases, the immune system shifts hard in one direction. That imbalance creates inflammation. In Melissa’s case, we used True Immune Balance 2.
Just to give you an idea of how exhausted she was. Her cortisol levels were undetectable by lab at lunch, dinner and bedtime. Cortisol is a hormone that is released during times of stress. Ten years of suffering had her near zero.
It took time to recover from way too close to death, almost a year before she felt healthy again. By her third year of leaning in to Mother Nature and True Health, she reported best ever. She was past retirement age, and she said, “I don’t think I’ve felt this alive ever in my life!”
True Health was kicked out of our last insurance company for sharing her story on our website, and officially was no longer covered by any of these helpful men.
I responded like a caretaker would.
I now offer A Metabolic Tune-Up for those willing to try Mother Nature. In preparing this website, I searched and searched for evidence of hurt at the hands of Mother. Not a single death by her medicine.
I found one harsh side effect from taking Momma’s medicine unwisely. It resolved naturally. A small percentage get tummy aches from consuming roots and bark. And nearly everyone finds the taste bad.
I don’t enjoy the taste, but I love it. I can swish the most bitter medicine around my mouth with ease, because I have witnessed and felt the love and healing of Mother.
You can get them all. All the medicines that produced these results, without a prescription, in our online store.
If you are more complicated than average, like Melissa, call or email, and I will help.
sensitivity. Then, the awkwardness of applying the beads pulled me back to body points. 
I live between the lines, lol, so that felt right. I placed acu-beads on LI 4 and the extra point, between LU7 and LI5, which has been used for thousands of years for addiction. Then I 1. took my medicine, 2. tapped KI27 and CV/GV, 3. Squeezed the two ear points I had finished, and 4. Pressed on the two wrist points that came up from googling.
I responded like a caretaker would.